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Received this "Letter from a College Student" today via email. Given the discussions lately on Hip Hop and the N-Word, I thought it appropriate and timely to share with you today. If you are so inclined, feel free to share this message with your readers.

The other day, a friend of mine visited me in the lobby of my dorm just to chat while her laundry was drying. As we were chatting, two young freshmen came by. One of the boys wanted to 'talk' to my friend (as in date). She asked him how old they were, and both of the boys replied 18. My friend and I both laughed hysterically because we are both 22 years old. After my friend left, the young men were still hanging around and one wanted to know how he could gain her interest.

The first thing I told him to do was to pull up his pants! He asked why, then said he liked saggin' his pants. I told him to come over to my computer and spell the word saggin'. Then I told him to write the word saggin' backwards.


I told him the origin of that look was from centuries ago. It was the intent of slave owners to demoralize the field workers by forbidding them to wear a belt as they worked in the fields or at any other rigorous job. In addition, men in prison wore their pants low when they were "spoken for". The other reason their pants looked like that was they were not allowed to have belts because prisoners were likely to try to commit suicide. And, saggin' pants prevents you from running.

We as young Black people have to be the ones to effect change. We are dying. The media has made a mockery of the Black American. Even our brothers and sisters from Africa don't take us seriously. Something as simple as pulling up your pants and standing with your head held high could make the biggest difference in the world's perception of us. It is time to do right by ourselves. We need to love and embrace each other. No one is going to do that for us.

It all comes down to perception. What people perceive is what is reality to them. We have to change not only the media's perception of us, but we need to change our perception of ourselves. Reme mber all eyes are on you Black Man. All eyes are on you Black Woman. All eyes are on your Black Child. People point the finger at us and expect us to engage in negative and illegal activities, to manifest loud, boisterous behaviour, to spend our hard earned money in their stores, buying goods we don't need, or really want. We have allowed not only the media, but the government and the world to portray us as a 'sub-culture.' They have stripped our culture down to the point where the image of Black people is perpetuated as rappers, athletes, drug users, and consumers of junk food, expensive tennis shoes, expensive cars, expensive TVs, cell phones and not investing in homes for our families. We are so much more!!!!!!!

To all our Black Men: Its time to stand up. There are billions of Black Women who want to do nothing more than worship the ground that you walk on. We are so in love with your potential. We want to have your back, we want to love, support and cherish every ounce of your being. But with that you have to show that you are willing to be the head of our households. You have to prove yourselves worthy of our submission. We need you to be hard working...Not a hustler. We need you to seek higher education, to seek spirituality. We need you to stand! And trust us, we will have your back. We know that it gets hard. We know you get weary. Trust and believe that there is nothing that a Black Man and a Black Woman can't handle with GOD on their side.

To all our Black Women: It is also time for you to stand up. It is time for you to stop using our bodies as our primary form of communication. It is time to be that virtuous woman that Proverbs spoke of. You cannot sit by the wayside while our men are dying by the masses. You are the epitome of Black Love. It starts within you. You need to speak with conviction to let not only our Black Men know, but the world, that you are the Mothers of this world. You are so powerful. You a re so beautiful. You need to love and embrace every blessing God has given us physically, emotionally and spiritually.

For all our Black Children: We need to love them. We need to teach them. We need to stand up for them. We need to protect them. We need to show them that there are no 'get rich quick' schemes. We need to tell them that they WILL die trying if they submit to a life of crime and deceit. We need to teach our children that no one will love them the way we can. And being a basketball player, a rapper, or a drug dealer is not reality. It's not realistic and only a small percentage of people ever make it as a rapper or professional athlete. We need to teach our children that we can be more than rappers and athletes. We can be the owners of these sports teams. We can be the CEO's of OUR fortune 500 companies. We need to believe in literacy. I am almost certain if we were to look back to the 1930s and 40s, the literacy rates for Black American Children are probably still the same.

Speak the Truth!

Obliged to you for hearing me, and now old SjP ain't got nothing more to say.

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10 sojourners hollin' back

Great post! I hope those who can benefit from this knowledge will see it and understand.

July 14, 2008 at 5:08 PM

This is a message that so many need to hear and embrace. Great post.

July 14, 2008 at 8:05 PM

Hey there!

Thank you so much for blowing the trumpet about this!

Peace, blessings and DUNAMIS!

July 14, 2008 at 8:20 PM

I just don't understand why so many young black men (AND white men) continue to wear their pants down below their asses. I honestly don't think they realize how stupid and ignorant they look.

Your message is exactly what people needed to hear.

July 15, 2008 at 11:18 AM

Not in my long as I live will my son wear his pants half off his ass, looking like he doesn't give a damn about anything or anyone, especially himself.

Now that I've gotten that off my chest, I love this post...I certainly wish I could feed it to every young man I see sporting this look...

July 15, 2008 at 8:10 PM

As many of you know, the Social Butterfly turned 18 on July 5. We let her have a party -that's another story that I'm still trying to recover from. Anyway, one mother's child had d*mn near all of his draws showing. My Best Half - who's 6'5" 250lb - went over to this boy and told him to pull up his pants. The boy (would called him something else with the initials of MF - but I won't) looked at my BH like he was crazy. Oh h*ll no! Naugh Baby! Don't beat his a$$! You ain't got to go home but you got to get the H*LL OUTTA HERE! PARTY OVER!

July 16, 2008 at 2:21 AM

u know how i felt about the pants

July 16, 2008 at 11:32 AM

That is as interesting a post I've read in a long time.

Sure changes the perspective of sagging pants, eh?

In a related story, a few months ago, we had Toad Suck Daze here in Conway, Arkansas. It is a spring festival, with over 100,000 people coming to downtown Conway.

We were driving around trying to find a parking space. I saw a group of (white) kids walking on the downtown sidewalk, one of them with drooping pants. I pointed him out to my wife and 15 year old son, Dylan. I said, "Let's watch."

This teenager walked one, single, solitary block. During the course of this stroll to Toad Suck Daze, he pulled his pants up ELEVEN times! One block, eleven times!

That right there would drive me insane!

I never wear long pants, if I don't have to. I prefer kaki shorts, period.

July 17, 2008 at 3:20 PM

I have read this post three times now. Love it. Thank you for an enlightening read.

July 22, 2008 at 1:31 PM

You spoke your mind here. Well said.

July 22, 2008 at 6:35 PM
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